Last year, Bustle published an article stating that close to half of all women fantasize about someone else while having sex. While they cited that fantasies begin at a young age and can actually be healthy for the relationship, we have our own theories.
There are a lot of people whose bodies are in one place while their minds are somewhere else simply because, hate to say it, the sex with their spouse sucks. Not due to a lack of love or even trying to make sex better. It’s just that some couples are not communicating their needs. Or worse, one or both of them are assuming that they’re holding it down while their partner is afraid to hurt their feelings by letting them know that it's actually the exact opposite.
Life is too short to tolerate bad sex. And yes, you can quote us on that! So, if you’re not getting all that you want in the bedroom with your man---and you’re not quite sure how to bring it up to him---forward this article. Here’s hoping he catches the not-so-subtle-hint!